I'm not a person who's big into New Year's Resolutions because, in all honestly, it seems like they're made to be broken. I am, however, a person who LOVES new beginnings - Mondays are pretty much my favorite. You have a whole brand new week laid out in front of you with all kinds of possibilities! So, when I get an entire new year laid out in front of me, coupled with the fact I have been working on setting more goals in my life, you'd better believe I'm pretty excited!
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So, in light of all this thinking I have been doing, I decided to set some goals for myself, schedule more things, take out some things and, overall, start using my time more effectively. I made a list of things I want to accomplish this year, from go on a missions trip to write my own recipes. But those kinds of goals can be a bit ambiguous. Write my own recipes. That's a good enough goal, but how do I know if I've achieved that? If I make one? If I write my own cookbook? There needs to be something more concrete to measure. So, I pulled out my Life Purpose Planning book that I haven't looked at since Jan/Feb 2009 and took a look at the one year plan. There's a five year plan in it, too, but that's a bit extreme for me right now. I need to make sure my laundry is getting done on a regular basis before I can think about where I want to be in five years! Instead of squishing everything into my workbook, I created a master spreadsheet in Excel with all the blanks per month just like in the book. However, I took it one step further and created monthly sheets, too. That way I can get even more specific in my goal setting. For example, I want to attempt to make (or adapt so I can have it) a new recipe once a month. It took a bit of work lining everything out, but I have every expectation it is going to be completely worth it! I didn't plan everything out for the entire year because there are quite a bit of unknowns (I can't be planning a girls' Bible Study for over the summer if I end up being in Europe travelling and doing some missions work like I'm hoping to!), but I was at least able to set some things for January and February with some larger goals for a few months down the road.
I then took a look at my schedule: work, family, friends, church, etc. and asked myself where everything was going to fit in and what rules I was going to need to establish for myself. I realized that if I am going to be able to read the books I want to and do the learning I desire, the TV is going to have to be completely off during the weekdays. There's no two ways about it. I had to ask myself, is that trade off going to be worth it? After thinking about the content of the books I want to be reading and the TV and movies I would be watching, I decided that it would be. Desiring to be a good steward of my time made that decision a no-brainer, even if I do like watching TV and movies a lot! After some tweaks and cuts, my schedule looks very nice, both figuratively (everything fit in nicely and I didn't have to plan out every second to get it all done) and literally (the colors I chose to create the spreadsheet look very nice together! :P )
Then I started getting practical and took the time I had while on vacation from work to clean everything up, so I can start fresh and just maintain. I went through drawers, closets, my desk, bins, even my pen and pencil cup! I tossed things that I didn't need or use or was just plain clutter (those stickers I've had since first grade: I think it's pretty safe to say I will never use them!) and put things where they belonged. I organized my file folders so I would actually start using them and not just pile everything on top of them until I have a chance to organize and label the files. I organized my bin of yarn that has numerous projects going in it and wrote them all done and prioritized them. I can't tell you how many times I've sat down to watch a movie with my family and wanted to work on a project at the same time but didn't have time to figure out what start with. Now I have a list of ones in progress so I know what to grab and am going to work to consolidating that bit to just a bin, not a bin and a large Michael's bag, a smaller travel bag and another large Michael's bag... (Let's just say that I'm a little bit better at the money stewardship part and like sales on yarn that I will eventually use!) I actually worked on one of those projects last night while watching a movie with some friends and finished it! One checked off the list!
The beauty of all of this is I'm sitting on my computer on New Year's Eve without anything hanging over my head - I have gotten everything done that I need to and can enjoy my evening tonight and my last day of vacation tomorrow. Monday will start the catch up and organization of my work things, but I don't think that will take long and, hey, I get paid for that! I'm planning on blogging more about how all my plans and goals are going and I am hoping to be able to share some more things I've learned as I go along (the plan right now is to do a review at the end of every month). I know that tweaking will occur and that's okay. The goal is to have everything lined up and if God redirects, He redirects. I've heard the saying, 'God can't drive a parked car' and although I don't entirely agree with that statement, there is some truth in the sentiment. God wants us to get busy and if we are dedicated on getting busy serving Him, learning more about Him and wisely using the time He has given to us, I believe He will bless that and steer us in the right direction if His plan looks different than ours. And if our heart is truly in the right place, we'll be excited for that change in direction and glory in the knowledge of feeling God's guiding hand on our life! Plus, His plans are always better in the long run!
I strongly encourage you to, if nothing else, look back over 2011 with it's good and bad, identify what you have learned, how you have grown and write it down. Then look forward to 2012 and write down what you would like to write down on this same day next year. You will be amazed how you will be able to grow if you have a vision for the future!
Happy New Year!!!
Blessings in Christ,
